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Contents 1 2007 1.1 20 September 2007, #124: New Things You Need to Know About Sex 1.2 14 September 2007, #123: All my ex's 1.3 6 September 2007, #122: Dragon*Con 1.4 28 August 2007, #121: Hot Poly Erotica! 1.5 22 August 2007, #120: Discerning a Toxic Relationship 1.6 12 August 2007, #119: Feedback--Negotiations, Fairness and Vibrators, oh my! 1.7 6 August 2007, #118: Geeks in Love 1.8 1 August 2007, Podcast Awards Announcement 1.9 24 July 2007, #117: Moving in the Direction of Greatest Courage 1.10 18 July 2007, #116: Tell Me What You Need 1.11 13 July 2007, #115: Being Jewish and Poly 1.12 9 July 2007, Announcement 1.13 5 July 2007, Special Edition: Negotiations Roundtable 1.14 1 July 2007, #114: Introverts vs. Extroverts 1.15 26 June 2007, Special Edition: Jealousy 1.16 20 June 2007, #113: Is There a Double Standard with Poly? 1.17 8 June 2007, #112: Listener Mail Extravaganza! 1.18 4 June 2007, #111: Dossie Easton Talks Jealousy 1.19 24 May 2007, #110: Dossie Easton Talks Ethical Slut 2 1.20 18 May 2007, #109: Meeting Metamours 1.21 9 May 2007, #108: Poly and the Prisoner's Dilemma 1.22 3 May 2007, #107: Leather Leadership 1.23 1 May 2007, Bonus: Hot Tub Cast! 1.24 26 April 2007, #106: Mistress Matisse Gets Down & Dirty 1.25 24 April 2007, Special: LLC social media seminar 1.26 24 April 2007, #105: Mistress Matisse Talks Poly 1.27 13 April 2007, #104 (for real): Poly and Single Redux 1.28 4 April 2007, #103: Being Poly and Single 1.29 29 March 2007, #102:; How Many Polys... Lightbulb? 1.30 23 March 2007, Special: Sex Is Fun's Sex Ed Crash Course 1.31 23 March 2007, #101: What Does "Family" Mean to You? 1.32 15 March 2007, #100: PW ROCKS! 1.33 11 March 2007, #99: All about furries 1.34 2 March 2007, #98: Relationships AREN'T work! 1.35 24 February 2007, #97: Polyamory in Studio 60 1.36 19 February 2007, #96: Poly Roundtable 1.37 11 February 2007, #95: Marriage as a Sacrament 1.38 4 February 2007, #94: Emotional Intelligence 1.39 23 January 2007, #93: Michelle Belanger Talks Tolerance 1.40 21 January 2007, #92: Three Legal Parents! 1.41 8 January 2007, #91: Poly Walk-In Closet 2 2006 2.1 28 December 2006, #90: Orgasms! 2.2 21 December 2006, #89: Needs vs Wants 2.3 13 December 2006, #88: Poly Misconceptions in the Media 2.4 7 December 2006, #87: Is poly trendy? 2.5 23 November 2006, #86: Home for the Holidays 2.6 15 November 2006, #85: Historical Monogamy 2.7 8 November 2006, #84: Long-Distance Relationships 2.8 1 November 2006, #83: How Come He's Better Than Me? 2.9 25 October 2006, #82: Dealing with the Monkeys 2.10 18 October 2006, #81: Tantric Sex 2.11 12 October 2006, #80: Dealing with jealousy; Polly & Marie TV sitcom 2.12 7 October 2006, #79: October 7, 2006 2.13 5 October 2006, #78: October 5, 2006 2.14 29 September 2006, minicast 2.15 19 September 2006, #77: September 19, 2006 2.16 14 September 2006, #75: September 5, 2006 2.17 14 September 2006, #76: September 13, 2006 2.18 14 September 2006, Special Edition: Poly Guys 2.19 29 August 2006, #74: August 29, 2006 2.20 22 August 2006, #73: August 22, 2006 2.21 15 August 2006, #72: August 15, 2006 2.22 8 August 2006, #71: August 8, 2006 2.23 6 August 2006, #69: August 5, 2006 2.24 3 August 2006, #70: August 2, 2006 2.25 2 August 2006, PW in the Podcast Awards! 2.26 26 July 2006, #68: July 27, 2006 2.27 19 July 2006, #67: July 18, 2006 2.28 14 July 2006, #66: July 11, 2006 2.29 4 July 2006, #65: July 4, 2006 2.30 27 June 2006, #64: June 27, 2006 2.31 20 June 2006, #63: June 20, 2006 2.32 14 June 2006, #62: June 13, 2006 2.33 11 June 2006, #61: June 10, 2006 2.34 31 May 2006, #60: May 31, 2006 2.35 27 May 2006, #59: May 23, 2006 2.36 17 May 2006, #58: May 16, 2006 2.37 9 May 2006, #57: May 9, 2006 2.38 3 May 2006, #56: May 2, 2006 2.39 25 April 2006, #55: April 26, 2006 2.40 18 April 2006, #54: April 18, 2006 2.41 16 April 2006, Special: Jealousy Seminar, April 8, 2006 2.42 11 April 2006, #53: April 11, 2006 2.43 5 April 2006, #52: April 5 , 2006 2.44 30 March 2006, #51: March 28, 2006 2.45 21 March 2006, #50: March 21, 2006 2.46 14 March 2006, #49: March 14, 2006 2.47 8 March 2006, #48: March 7, 2006 2.48 28 February 2006, #47: February 28, 2006 2.49 24 February 2006, #46: February 24, 2006 2.50 22 February 2006, #45: February 14, 2006 2.51 22 February 2006, #45: February 14, 2006 2.52 7 February 2006, #44: February 7, 2006 2.53 1 February 2006, #43: January 31, 2006 2.54 24 January 2006, #42: January 24, 2006 2.55 18 January 2006, #41: January 17, 2006 2.56 10 January 2006, #40: January 10, 2006 2.57 3 January 2006, #39: January 3, 2006 3 2005 4 (year) TEMPLATE 4.1 date, #num: Show Title 5 Unidentified episode 6 Cast 7 External links

[edit] 2007

[edit] 20 September 2007, #124: New Things You Need to Know About Sex

Polyamory as extended family and new things you need to know about sex.

[On an aware and open poly relationship.]

Roxy Fox 5:00: New term: Polyobvious

[On Poly - mono relationships.]

Cunning Minx 6:30: If you're in a poly-mono relationship, the mono person still has to learn all the poly skills. Because the poly person is going to be bringing in new partners, new personalities, new dynamics, new sexuality. And the mono person is still going to have to deal with the idea of that influx of that new energy and new personality and still going to have to do some type of reaching out and communication with the new person.

[edit] 14 September 2007, #123: All my ex's

My poly family goes camping; what to do when you and your ex are at the same social event!

[edit] 6 September 2007, #122: Dragon*Con

Post-Dragon*Con review of polyamory, geeks, costumes, parties and podcasting.

[edit] 28 August 2007, #121: Hot Poly Erotica!

This week, we've got a treat: poly erotica! "Recent Reports of Progress Toward Fusion," by Bill Noble.

[edit] 22 August 2007, #120: Discerning a Toxic Relationship

How can you tell if you're in a toxic relationship? Also, listener feedback and Poly in the Media.

[edit] 12 August 2007, #119: Feedback--Negotiations, Fairness and Vibrators, oh my!

Feedback on the interview with Tacit, introverts and extroverts, pay disparity for women, and the idea of fairness, plus My Poly Family and Poly in the Media!

[edit] 6 August 2007, #118: Geeks in Love

Minx and Steve Eley discuss high-tech tools that poly geeks use to maintain their local and long-distance relationships.

[edit] 1 August 2007, Podcast Awards Announcement

Polyamory Weekly has been nominated for a Podcast Award, so I'm pimpin' for votes! Vote once ever 24 hours (in the Mature category) at www.podcastawards.com. Thanks for your support!

[edit] 24 July 2007, #117: Moving in the Direction of Greatest Courage

Tacit discusses dealing with jealousy, moving in direction of greatest courage, NRE and his upcoming book.

[edit] 18 July 2007, #116: Tell Me What You Need

Earthwalker shares how to argue in a poly family with kids; Tacit talks about how love does NOT conquer all.

[edit] 13 July 2007, #115: Being Jewish and Poly

Being poly and Jewish--what's the big deal?

[edit] 9 July 2007, Announcement

Please submit Polyamory Weekly for a Podcast Awards! Go to www.podcastawards.com, click "Click Here to Nominate", go to the Mature category and type in Polyamory Weekly with the website www.polyweekly.com. Thank you!

[edit] 5 July 2007, Special Edition: Negotiations Roundtable

Negotiations, boundaries and limits, oh, my! From the Heartland Polyamory Conference.

[edit] 1 July 2007, #114: Introverts vs. Extroverts

Introverts vs. extroverts--how to care for and support and introverts, and what introverts can do to get by in an extrovert's world; feedback on PepperMint's discussion on the double standard.

[edit] 26 June 2007, Special Edition: Jealousy

This special edition of Poly Weekly is the interactive, no-holds-barred talk on jealousy--what is it, how to deal with it, who is and who isn't--from the Heartland Polyamory Conference.

[edit] 20 June 2007, #113: Is There a Double Standard with Poly?

Is there a sexual double standard with regards to poly/mono, just as there is with sexual exploits? PepperMint and I get into it; listener Jenny comments.

[edit] 8 June 2007, #112: Listener Mail Extravaganza!

Listener mail extravaganza! Text chat, a lot more about meeting metamours, My Poly Family--poly and Mother's Day, poly finances, monogamists and frubble, brutal honesty under unusual circumstances, poly envy, a poly anthropology experiment, and "choosing" your "soulmate."

[edit] 4 June 2007, #111: Dossie Easton Talks Jealousy

Dossie Easton shares her thoughts on being a lover to a couple, on jealousy and on Radical Ecstasy.

[edit] 24 May 2007, #110: Dossie Easton Talks Ethical Slut 2

Dossie Easton talks the Ethical Slut movie, Ethical Slut Two, and how to meet poly people.

[edit] 18 May 2007, #109: Meeting Metamours

To meet or not to meet?... your metamours, that is. Steve Eley of Escape Pod guest co-hosts the discussion.

[edit] 9 May 2007, #108: Poly and the Prisoner's Dilemma

Lots of listener mail; a poly comic from LLC; moving in with your poly family; polyamory and the prisoner's dilemma.

[edit] 3 May 2007, #107: Leather Leadership

Interviews with CARAS, PepperMint and Lisa of CineKink from Leather Leadership Conference.

[edit] 1 May 2007, Bonus: Hot Tub Cast!

First of May bonus episode! Recorded live from Steve Eley's hot tub in Atlanta, GA on April 29, 2007, with a crowd of hot poly people. Musical guest: Jonathan Coulton's song "First of May". Be sure to check out the Poly Southeast mailing list for more information on polyamory resources in the Southeastern U.S.

[edit] 26 April 2007, #106: Mistress Matisse Gets Down & Dirty

Mistress Matisse gets down and dirty and talks poly SEX! :-)

[edit] 24 April 2007, Special: LLC social media seminar

Citizen Kinkster: Building Communities with New Media, the seminar Graydancer and I gave at Leather Leadership Conference on Sunday. Show notes and handout will be posted at www.polyweekly.com.

[edit] 24 April 2007, #105: Mistress Matisse Talks Poly

Mistress Matisse talks poly!

[edit] 13 April 2007, #104 (for real): Poly and Single Redux

Being poly and single, redux; my poly family.

[edit] 4 April 2007, #103: Being Poly and Single

On being poly and single; a poly story from a listener.

[edit] 29 March 2007, #102:; How Many Polys... Lightbulb?

How many polys does it take to screw in a lightbulb?; Helen Fisher at TED on romantic love and attachment.

[edit] 23 March 2007, Special: Sex Is Fun's Sex Ed Crash Course

This 25-minute audio explains some basics of sexuality in an information-driven, non-judgmental sex-positive light. Includes overviews of masterbation, oral sex and penetrative sex for men and women, covering both the pleasures of the activities as well as the dangers and responsibilities involved. Thanks to Kidder of Sex Is Fun! for taking the time to create this fun yet fact-filled introduction to sex for responsible adults.

[edit] 23 March 2007, #101: What Does "Family" Mean to You?

Kidder from Sex Is Fun! produces a sex-positive, information-packed audio crash course for teens and young adults; minx asks, "What does family mean to you?"

[edit] 15 March 2007, #100: PW ROCKS!

Celebrating 100 episodes and two years of Polyamory Weekly! Reflections, orgasms, limericks, sex with goats, touching poetry--it's all here!

[edit] 11 March 2007, #99: All about furries

Everything you wanted to know about the real life of furries!

[edit] 2 March 2007, #98: Relationships AREN'T work!

Robyn Trask of Loving More comments on the Studio 60 mention; Tacit talks about his belief that relationships aren't work (really? yes, really!)

[edit] 24 February 2007, #97: Polyamory in Studio 60

This week's big story: among other poly in the media, we discuss the mention of polyamory and Loving More in Aaron Sorkin's Studio 60 mainstream TV show.

[edit] 19 February 2007, #96: Poly Roundtable

Poly roundtable discussion from Conflation, with a lot of laughing. ;-)

[edit] 11 February 2007, #95: Marriage as a Sacrament

Marriage as a sacrament vs a civil contract.

[edit] 4 February 2007, #94: Emotional Intelligence

Emotional intelligence--how emotionally intelligent are you?

[edit] 23 January 2007, #93: Michelle Belanger Talks Tolerance

Michelle Belanger talks tolerance of fringe groups, both by society at large and among other groups.

[edit] 21 January 2007, #92: Three Legal Parents!

A Canadian court rules that a child has three legal parents!

[edit] 8 January 2007, #91: Poly Walk-In Closet

The poly walk-in closet and Canada declares three legal parents for one child.

[edit] 2006

[edit] 28 December 2006, #90: Orgasms!

Celebrating Global Orgasm Day, we share listeners' orgasms for peace!

[edit] 21 December 2006, #89: Needs vs Wants

Needs vs wants--why should we expect to get them met?

[edit] 13 December 2006, #88: Poly Misconceptions in the Media

Common misconceptions about poly in the media; more on is poly trendy?

[edit] 7 December 2006, #87: Is poly trendy?

Global Orgasm Day and is polyamory trendy?

[edit] 23 November 2006, #86: Home for the Holidays

Historical monogamy; home for the holidays; using up your ability to love.

[edit] 15 November 2006, #85: Historical Monogamy

A brief and incomplete look at historical monogamy; polyamory in the British media.

[edit] 8 November 2006, #84: Long-Distance Relationships

Dealing with NRE, long-distance relationships and the slippery slope argument.

[edit] 1 November 2006, #83: How Come He's Better Than Me?

A hot poly story; how come he's better than me; a rant by minx.

[edit] 25 October 2006, #82: Dealing with the Monkeys

A poly play; dealing with the monkeys; poly in the media.

[edit] 18 October 2006, #81: Tantric Sex

Mistress Matisse tells it like it is; what conservatives are good for; an interview with the authors of a book on tantric sex.

[edit] 12 October 2006, #80: Dealing with jealousy; Polly & Marie TV sitcom

Poly-mono resources; understanding jealousy; a poly play and Polly & Marie, a new poly TV sitcom.

[edit] 7 October 2006, #79: October 7, 2006

Return to the original orgasm; interview with Anita Wagner.

[edit] 5 October 2006, #78: October 5, 2006

Making choices when a partner is sick; masturbation and platonic love; along came polyamory controversy in the media.

[edit] 29 September 2006, minicast

Minicast from Podcast Expo and post-Folsom

[edit] 19 September 2006, #77: September 19, 2006

Our poly family; too much cake; how polygamy affects us.

[edit] 14 September 2006, #75: September 5, 2006

Poly limericks; poly pride; save our poly family.

[edit] 14 September 2006, #76: September 13, 2006

Anarchism and free love; on-again, off-again; Warren Buffet is poly?

[edit] 14 September 2006, Special Edition: Poly Guys

Enjoy this special edition of Polyamory Weekly--Graydancer and Lqqkout talk about the life and times of poly guys.

[edit] 29 August 2006, #74: August 29, 2006

The Lusty Lady addresses sex in marriage; advice from the Dalai Lama; a conversation about how to fuck up a poly relationship with Amy Gahran.

[edit] 22 August 2006, #73: August 22, 2006

Are all feelings valid?; children of polygamists speak up; the final half of the interview with Raven Kaldera, author of Pagan Polyamory.

[edit] 15 August 2006, #72: August 15, 2006

Homosexuality and genetics; is it all about the sex; an interview with Raven Kaldera, author of Pagan Polyamory.

[edit] 8 August 2006, #71: August 8, 2006

Preparing for a loss; homosexuality and genetics; coming out as poly; poly activism.

[edit] 6 August 2006, #69: August 5, 2006

Enduring NRE; a happy poly start; the New Scientist article on Love Unlimited; an interview with Goldy Decker, co-creator of the Midwest Alt Poly Con.

[edit] 3 August 2006, #70: August 2, 2006

The Skypecast on living situations, in which participants discuss when and how they decided to move in or not, how they chose to split up chores and opinions on child-free zones in the home.

[edit] 2 August 2006, PW in the Podcast Awards!

OK, I'm officially shameless! You can vote once daily through August 11th for PW as Best Mature Podcast at the Podcast Awards. Yeah, yeah; I know there's no chance we'll win. Just want to make a decent showing!

[edit] 26 July 2006, #68: July 27, 2006

The PW Skypecast; parent frubble; emotional intimacy; British poly.

[edit] 19 July 2006, #67: July 18, 2006

Midwest Alternative Poly Con; Podcast Expo; frubble; emotional intimacy polyamory in the lexicon.

[edit] 14 July 2006, #66: July 11, 2006

Polyamory in the dictionary; Loving More needs your help; who has affairs and why?

[edit] 4 July 2006, #65: July 4, 2006

Masturbation Zen; lesbian laptops; amoebas and emotional intimacy; and poly families with children.

[edit] 27 June 2006, #64: June 27, 2006

Poly songs; sperm wars and reproductive strategies; an interview with Omaha Sternberg about her poly family.

[edit] 20 June 2006, #63: June 20, 2006

Poly as orchestra; poly and Buddhism; interview with Omaha Sternberg.

[edit] 14 June 2006, #62: June 13, 2006

Poly songs; a kinky minister speaks on civil rights; Jon Stewart on poly and gay marriage rights; interview with Sheva.

[edit] 11 June 2006, #61: June 10, 2006

Poly music; conservative-bashing; how much does your lover want to know?; an interview with Sheva about self and empowerment.

[edit] 31 May 2006, #60: May 31, 2006

Shibaricon post-mortem; big gay love; poly-English translations; an interview with Twisted Monk.

[edit] 27 May 2006, #59: May 23, 2006

Poly dating; why minx won't be living in Missouri any time soon; multidating.

[edit] 17 May 2006, #58: May 16, 2006

Poly-friendly; sex as cake; bias against bisexuals and polyamorists on online dating sites.

[edit] 9 May 2006, #57: May 9, 2006

How is your sex drive?; new poly research; polyandry.

[edit] 3 May 2006, #56: May 2, 2006

Polyamory etiquette in the office; a poly comedienne; polyamory and Beltane; and poly in the media.

[edit] 25 April 2006, #55: April 26, 2006

Polyamory in the Kinsey Institute; tokens; poly in the media.

[edit] 18 April 2006, #54: April 18, 2006

Tokens; poly for pleasure; coming out to a potential vanilla mate; gay polys.

[edit] 16 April 2006, Special: Jealousy Seminar, April 8, 2006

minx and Graydancer's seminar on jealousy at Galleria Domain (www.galleriadomain.org) in Chicago.

[edit] 11 April 2006, #53: April 11, 2006

Brief comments on jealousy and "Difficult Conversations."

[edit] 5 April 2006, #52: April 5 , 2006

Primary vs secondary; is polyamory sexy; DID; and polygamy as a zero sum game.

[edit] 30 March 2006, #51: March 28, 2006

Boobiesexuals; stealing in a poly relationship; Heinlein; and Spike/Xander erotica.

[edit] 21 March 2006, #50: March 21, 2006

A happy poly relationship; Big Love; the history of marriage and polygyny; and managed monogamy.

[edit] 14 March 2006, #49: March 14, 2006

Happy birthday to PW; dealing with jealousy by getting out more; more about Mormons and the controversy surrounding Big Love.

[edit] 8 March 2006, #48: March 7, 2006

Heinlein, polygyny and dildos, oh, my!

[edit] 28 February 2006, #47: February 28, 2006

A vampire podcast; STDs and Asperger's syndrome; celebrating bisexuality; privatizing marriage and marrying goats.

[edit] 24 February 2006, #46: February 24, 2006

Poly communication and jealousy; male bisexuals don't exist; the myth of monogamy.

[edit] 22 February 2006, #45: February 14, 2006

The slippery slope argument against gay marriage; thoughts on long-distance relationships; the Mormons get pissy over Big Love.

[edit] 22 February 2006, #45: February 14, 2006

The slippery slope argument against gay marriage; advice on long-distance relationships; the Mormons get pissed over Big Love.

[edit] 7 February 2006, #44: February 7, 2006

Coming up on this week's show: polyamory as a fetish; bein' poly in Texas; and Polyamory Weekly in the media.

[edit] 1 February 2006, #43: January 31, 2006

Coming up on this week's show: more on dealing with jealousy and time constraints; the Loving More conference; and poly in the media.

[edit] 24 January 2006, #42: January 24, 2006

Coming up on this week's show: more on MMF erotica, a poly conference and a short story by Stephen Elliott.

[edit] 18 January 2006, #41: January 17, 2006

Coming up on this week's show: gay and poly in NYC; jealousy; poly-mono marriage; and MMF erotica.

[edit] 10 January 2006, #40: January 10, 2006

Coming up on this week's show: minx can die happy; she's in Penthouse!; Pagan Polyamory; threesomes; and swingers, soccer and Montel Williams.

[edit] 3 January 2006, #39: January 3, 2006

Coming up on this week's show: a little more on jealousy; poly pet peeves; Penthouse Forum; and does being poly ruin your fantasy life?

[edit] 2005

(need to get the archived shows)

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[edit] date, #num: Show Title

Show blurb provided by Cunning Minx, remove Email info.

[This is an explanatory note; it gives some context, using a full English sentence.]

Character (approximate time in show): This is the first time I show up in this episode.

Minor Character Without a Wikipedia Page: I'm here, too.

Character: Second time I show up, I don't need a link to Wikipedia.

Unnamed Character: My attribution uses a brief description with title-casing.

[edit] Unidentified episode

Minor Character: [meekly] Nobody remembers where this quote is from.

[edit] Cast

• Cunning Minx - Host.
• Graydancer - Ex, has ropecast.
• Roxy Fox - a friend of Graydancer.
• ...

[edit] External links

• PolyWeekly.com Responsible non-monogamy from a kink-friendly, pansexual point of view